Because their existence is not more important than the whole rest of you?
Exactly. He didn't mention them because they didn't matter to him. I have dozens of scars - everywhere. But it's not something my boyfriend ever brought up. I brought it up to him - when I was comfortable. It's not his place to point them out, it's yours to open up when you are ready. Scars make you who you are, and who you are is beautiful. Don't be too hard on him.
Scars are what is on the outside. It's what's on the inside that really matters.
The scars on the inside are the ones that are the easiest to hide, but the are the ones you really need to share.
All these MMTs prove how much cutting is for attention. Obviously we knew this anyway since it's a high school epidemic and you know how kids just love doing things that are bad for them because other people think it's cool. Not everyone needs a sob story. You aren't worth less as a human being if you don't have trauma in your past.
Horsefeathers... Why are you such a bitch? Like, seriously. Most of the shit I see you post is super negative for no reason. Yes, there's a high percentage of people who cut for attention. But OP wondering why her boyfriend never mentioned them doesn't automatically mean she did it for attention. It's part of her, and likely, the scars make her very self conscious. If everyone she ever meets and converses with wants to know what's up with the scars, it's going to be a little red flag in her head when someone ignores them. So, yeah, it makes her think that strangers will ask her what's up with the scars when her boyfriend won't. Don't go assuming she cuts just for attention. That makes you an asshole, you don't know her. Obviously I don't either, but at least my assumptions don't make me look cunty.
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