Honey, if they're not showing interest in you it's because they're blind morons. You don't need to change yourself for anyone. You're perfect just the way you are (and yes I know it's cliched but it's true). One day you're gonna find a man that loves you for you. You just need to keep an open mind and keep looking.
#1 - by livelovepray
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thats the reason i started losing weight too. but 50 pounds and many years later i've discovered that it truly was for me; that what started out as a negative taught me a lot about the value of health and how strong i truly was. even a tough and frustrating situation can turn into a positive with time.
#2 - by al03
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@livelovepray Some people can't help being overweight. But most can. And they have a choice, knowing that most of us prefer a companion who isn't overweight and who seems to take care of him/herself. I think you do people a disservice when you discourage them from taking control of their destiny. It's not as if she was trying to become anorexic or something.
#3 - by elpresidente
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If she loses weight to get a man she's actually losing weight for herself. As a man I'll say we overlook extra pounds when we really click with a girl. There's probably another reason she's alone. She needs to learn happiness and self confidence and maybe the weight loss helps.
