Today, I have been dating the most incredible girl for over a year. I have lost weight and made huge strides in every aspect of my life. Almost all because of her. But I don't know how much longer it is going to last. I have become paranoid, controlling, and made her unhappy several times; everything I never wanted to be in a boyfriend. I still have a horrible view of myself and I may lose her because of it. But for now, she's still sticking by my side, and that MMT.

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Tell her how you feel. It's always good to have a talk if there's any problems :)

Dude, get it together. If you know you've made her unhappy... stop. Tell her why you've been nasty to her, and have her hold you to not being a jerk. If you have a good friend who is truly a friend, ask that person to keep you honest. Don't let this past year be a frustrating, next-to-waste of time for her. She's put that effort in because she thinks you're worth that effort - prove her right.

I'm actually in your girlfriend's position in this situation. I know you don't want to lose her because of how much you've changed for the better since you've been with her. But give yourself some credit. Maybe she gave you the courage or inspired you, but you are the one who has made so much progress. Try your hardest to trust her and not want to control the relationship so much. That's exactly what my boyfriend is doing and he's pushing me away. If you want to hold on to her, you need to try and relax. And TALK to her about it.

Be nicer to her! And tell her how you feel. I bet she will help you

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