Today, even though I’m happily married, I caught myself thinking about him again - wondering what my life would be like if he had made it back from Afghanistan. MMT

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I'm sorry to hear that, babyblue D=

Don't ever let people make you believe you can't love two people with your entire heart & soul.

Thank you for your sacrifice. Like Atlantic said, you can love two people, especially if one was taken away from you.

I think that's normal. And I agree that you can love two people. Just make sure you are fair to your husband and yourself. Time can 'improve' our memories and even though your first love was (I presume) a wonderfull person, he was also just human, with all its adorable flaws. Life would have been good, but not perfect. Try not to let wondering turn into regretting. I'm sorry for your loss, but happy you found love again.

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