How DARE she have different priorities to you! Doesn't she know that as someone who can fulfill the desires you have that it is her duty as your friend to allow you to experience parenthood vicariously through her?!
You don't know how much she really does love the children she has. You really don't know how much you would love children if you had them. You haven't experienced the joys or the horrors. She has.
If you had children you would understand that yelling at them is part of loving them. Sometimes the only way to get important things through to a young child is to hammer it in. I would rather yell at my kid not to touch a hot stove, have them get scared, but not do it, rather than having them touch it because I asked nicely and they didn't take me seriously. Unless she is beating the kids you really have no right to say anything about how she raises them. And like others have said, you have no idea how much she loves those children.
Why are we just assuming the OP is just misunderstanding how she treats the children? OP could very well be valid in this statement, for she might be treating her children really badly. If the children are being treated like shit, OP has every fucking right to state this. If OP is just misunderstanding, OP needs to learn better. Also, you nor I have any idea if she loves or doesn't love her children.
But OP makes it sound like, "I would do it this way, so you should too!". That's not right :/
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