My mothers cancer came back...and the day i found out, i refused to go home and spend time with her. I regret that so much. Your mom loves you, and when someone loves you that strongly, they are always willing to forgive.
#2 - by xcaththatsmex
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It's OK that you said that. It was never appropriate for her to talk to you about her marital problems. That hasn't changed. Honey, I think God is written all over this situation. You have no inkling as to what God is doing in her life. There is a reason everything happen. We are all a work in progress and God's never done with us. God's never left you or your mom and he never will, he is still in control. Cry out to him! i will be praying for you and your situation. "Not all things are good but all things work together for the greater good of his plan.."
#3 - by Kat66
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Please don't feel bad. For the past 18 years of my life, my father was convinced I was his only friend and would complain about my mother to me while my mother would complain to me about my father. Don't feel bad, that is not your responsibility, its not your job to listen to that.
#5 - by 1Hadassah1
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Is this really the place for that Kat? As a Christian I try to be respectful of the beliefs of others and not force my religion where it doesn't belong.
#6 - by horsefeathers
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My mother has always told me about her martial problems. And I always hated her doing that. When I confronted her, she told me that because she raised me she had no friends to talk to. I felt horrible and guilty. But then I realized that my Mom didn't mean for it to come out that way. She was scared, because she just found out that she had Cancer, but didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to be burdened with it. My Mom told me all of her problems, and while I hated it, and hurt her feelings, I am glad that she was my Mother and she saw me as a friend. Don't feel bad. You shouldnt have to hear about them, but sometimes, it is a good thing in a bad package. I am glad that I am able to be a daughter and a friend to my Mother. You should not feel bad about it, and your mother knows that you love her and will always love her. Both of you be strong and I hope your story has a happy ending.
#7 - by Dycry
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