Today, my fiancé was in a head-on collision car accident. He is currently in a coma. And all I can think about is the argument we had this morning. I screamed at him for screaming at me. It was a petty argument. But if he could scream now, I wouldn’t say a word. I’d just listen to the sound of his voice. MMT

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Aaaw :/ My father was in a coma several years ago, but he got out of it, just just gotta keep hoping!

I hope he gets better. But remember: between the dark clouds and the grey blank sky, there is always a silver lining.

I was in a severe car accident about two years ago, and was in a coma for 11 weeks. It was a long road back, but now I'm pretty much 100% of what I was then. A little more introspective now, as it seems you are, too. Puts things in perspective, big time, doesn't it. Stay with him, don't give up hope, believe he knows you're there, sing to him, talk to him, hold his hand if you can. You never know what he knows, or when he'll be back. Just about the best thing that ever happened to me, in my life, right up there with the births of my daughters, was my girlfriend coming to see me in the ICU right after I woke up. It's what I woke up for, and it's what kept me going, when recovering was so, so hard... email me if you want to reach out - Joel@joelleitner.com

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I completely feel your pain as I have gone through the coma experience with my daughter and with my boyfriend. No matter what, you have to have hope. It truly doesn't make sense to have anything other than hope. You can always think the worst, but do your best to concentrate on the positive. Even the smallest gains can bring you joy. And as Joel said above, patients need to know you're there. They need to know they matter. They need to know you still care and love them. That's why I continued to stick by these two remarkable human beings during their darkest moments when everyone else had given up. I can look back without remorse or regret in possibly giving up. Please hang in there the best you can. Even if the best is being able to laugh once during the day. Ensure to take care of yourself because no one else will do that for you and you need to be there for yourself and for him. Feel free to e-mail me: ckfishel@yahoo.com

Tell him how you feel, I'm sure he can hear you. I hope he wakes up.

Even I would urge you to keep talking to him.... things will be good Inshallah.

This post is from about 4 months ago, so I pray that your fiance is back to normal now. This post makes me want to call my boyfriend just to tell him I love him. OP, I'll be thinking of you.

i dont understand why you are on hte internet on the night of this accident.

Coma victims can't hear Jvondahl. I hope he woke up!

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